我在新浪以介末開(kāi)門(mén)之名開(kāi)博，連載自己的婚姻生活。飆升的點(diǎn)擊率膨脹了我的虛榮心，我志得意滿(mǎn)地準(zhǔn)備出書(shū)吹噓自己的幸福生活。出書(shū)的事還未見(jiàn)眉目，我離婚了，以雪崩的速度。我*次真正領(lǐng)略了生活的荒誕，簡(jiǎn)直想笑。

接下來(lái)的兩年時(shí)間，我寫(xiě)了一出話(huà)劇，編了一本雜志，又談了一次熱情的戀愛(ài)結(jié)了一次婚，出書(shū)的事情順理成章地被耽擱下來(lái)。一方面是沒(méi)精力，另一方面是心里躊躇：這東西有人看么？在朋友的慫恿下，我決定還是寫(xiě)下來(lái)再說(shuō)，既然對(duì)婚姻有了新的感悟，又有了閑，況且一吐為快的欲望又像狗一樣在后面猛追。

等到動(dòng)筆的時(shí)候才覺(jué)得是自討苦吃：因?yàn)槭钦嫒苏媸�，所以既不能丑化別人，又不能美化自己；寫(xiě)得太狠，對(duì)不起自己；寫(xiě)得不狠，也對(duì)不起自己。我被迫用更為冷靜客觀的眼光再次打量當(dāng)年的往事，并正視自己不愿正視的所有缺陷，老實(shí)交待自己的錯(cuò)誤和感悟。

本書(shū)是作者介末完全真實(shí)的個(gè)人經(jīng)歷，但也不是自傳，畢竟這只是介末不足十年的個(gè)人經(jīng)歷，雖然客觀真實(shí)，但只截取了與婚姻相關(guān)的片段，還不能作為全面了解一個(gè)人的標(biāo)準(zhǔn)。給婚姻撒上一把介末，讓人感受超刺激又淚流滿(mǎn)面的生活。不粉飾、不矯情、不夸張，一個(gè)睿智的女人帶你學(xué)會(huì)生活、婚姻哲學(xué)。

The author started her bolg on Sina Weibo, entitled Jie Mo open the door, serialized publication of her Six Years of Marriage, which received over 1.6 million hits. As the number of hits soared, Jie Mo began to prepare for publication and bragged about how lucky her life was. But before much progress could be made, she got divorced. It all happened with the speed of an avalanche...

Real Marriage is a delightful documentation of the narrative contradictions that fuel not only the complex human emotion of love, but also the idiosuncrasies that can be seen in contemporary Chinese married life.

As the events in this book unfold before you, you feel confused, you feel despair,etc. But more importantly, these feelings leave you with laughter.